“I think ones standards change as we age.
In youth “just clicking” is the ideal perception of love.
As we age, more practical matters become our focus.”
Comment from Nickel for a Thought‘s blog. Was interested in the blog, but this comment to her blog caught my eye even more.
So…fucking…true. I used to always tell my friends that I just wanna be able to ‘click’ with somebody. If I ‘click’ with them, then I’ve found ‘The One.’ Using those exact words.
The older you get the more you know what you want out of a life partner.
The less things you are willing to put up with from that potential life partner.
I have bestfriends all the way from junior highschool that I ‘click‘ with. Me and my drinking buddy ‘click‘ very well. I like to think I ‘click‘ with the post lady, the way she smiles and strikes up conversation when I pick up my mail.
I guess it wouldn’t make much sense to hold that ‘click‘ standard to a life partner. I mean really. It doesn’t make sense.
Shouldn’t there be more to a relationship than just ‘CLICKIN‘?
I would like to think so