Well Said… (Stud for Stud relationships)

24 May

Stud-on-Stud Relationships: No Fear
© 2008/previously published in Aggressive Magazine, Summer 2009

D. Alexandria

“I think it’s difficult for people to understand stud-on-stud relationships because there’s a ‘role’ issue in their mind that one partner has to be dominant and the other has to be submissive,” Stephanie comments. “I don’t believe that at all. I believe that whatever your identity [is], a relationship is more successful when the key elements of communication and trust are instilled, as opposed to some stupid ‘role’ assignment.”

“…For Naya’Hri, it is that cut and dry. “The brutal truth would be that people (and while we’re at it let’s get specific – LESBIANS) don’t (or refuse to) understand stud-on-stud [relationships] because their need to hold on to obsolete and heterosexually-copycat behavior keeps them from being able to evolve beyond the oppressive place which they stand.”


*Full article can be found here.*


Posted by on May 24, 2011 in Lesbo stuff


5 responses to “Well Said… (Stud for Stud relationships)

  1. Lesbian Brooklynite

    September 16, 2011 at 8:46 am

    People really need to get over themselves. Woman for woman is what it is all about.

    • teresz

      September 16, 2011 at 8:53 am

      Yes, completely agree 🙂

  2. dalexandria

    October 4, 2011 at 5:01 am

    Wow! I love how my article is getting around LOL. This article was, hands-down, the most important I ever wrote. THANK YOU for sharing it — well, part of it LOL 🙂 — D. Alexandria

    • teresz

      October 4, 2011 at 8:18 am

      Your welcome. And apologies for not adding some type of link to the article, ill have to update the post. Really enjoyed your writing, its refreshing to hear black lesbian women speak out about stereotypical relationships, regarding stud and femme. I’ll be sharing this with my queer friends and family. Thanks again:)

  3. Orangee

    October 6, 2011 at 10:48 am

    As the caption reads: well said…


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